Friday, February 13, 2009

Wife, will never be the feelings of a third party

Wife, will never be the feelings of a third party 

Third party 

If a woman the "wife" This identity as a supreme honor and researchers in other women, then opening her home and that the best not do anything,  however, possible? 
Men are mostly rational utilitarian purpose in the architecture, because the objectives clearly, so he will be a woman category, such as the maternal type, mistress type type, red type and so on, in his different life stages and social demand, naturally. 
also happens to men is quite different from a woman, apart from the best amulet of "sexual impulse", there are drunk out of control, buddy, child group games, with clients such as entertainment, a Man "derailed" in the eyes of a woman is betrayed , and can easily rise to emotional smuggling, henceforth, the "third party" has become the executioners marriage. 
However, as long as his wife are much more fierce, not only to the introduction of a Man's go faster, tend to be more consolidated and that the   revolution in the feelings of two people result is that his wife has become "the feelings of the third persons ", the letter does not? 
For example, Taiwan was one female writer, director and actress with her husband, the writer wrote his wife in their professional writing an open letter to the scolding he got two people and forcing the two do not unite into a romantic one, it seems a little heart I beg your pardon by the community look like love, they really live up to expectations, more than a decade, the extraordinary achievements of glass art and become the story, who else would go about this cause it? 
Feeling has always been a hard nut to crack, you see small babies to watch their own him (her) pleasing to the eye of the standard, they can not only laugh at Oh Mother! Of other beautiful aunt will gladly show the way, try to think of even the dog will find the opposite sex that human! 
Therefore, if women do not understand emotion and morality, loyalty or commitment are not related, they would put themselves into a frenzied Bite context of the utterly shameless, the previous livelihoods depend on a woman because panic yet understandable, which is shaken to her survival fundamental, and today, women also need it? 
When the woman brought great joy to watch idol dramas, where sexual fantasies and actor Daisaku daydreaming, when a Man is only his traditionally been the acquiescence of his wife four three male concubine culture, more unscrupulous into action just outside Forever changing the temptation, particularly in the physico-chemical woman to achieve the ultimate visual marketing era, Man tempted to put "sex" is very difficult, women do not also such a commercial benefit from the ecological chain it? 
And we old in love with a Man accused of can be separated from at the same time, women could not bear most of Man's extramarital sex, so women want to wear a Man suppositoria in the waistband of sexual control is not available, how to understand the feelings of a Man of cognition, then what is it? And emotional control is a right idiot! 
In this way, smart woman watch her husband's affair anyway, should not put himself in "the feelings of a third party" in the dilemma, we must do! Tactful choice of leaving, it is necessary to do! Turn a blind eye to their more illustrious beautiful life, "wife" status, however this is only a transitional role. 
If you see a Japanese woman can not divorce, some insist that the death is not buried together with her husband to choose the funeral alone, I know that life can decide whether or not this man how are Fiat, lucky things! 
Conversely, also clinging "marriage is the tomb of love" that they no longer talk about love, but also allowed her husband to talk about love, or the reverse may also be into, is an immature attitude of respect for others, husband and wife, as other Interpersonal relations, no big deal, women should be wishful thinking as their Man of all the world, of course, have to bear the various acts of him. 
In fact, both men and women, such as North Korea has really become "the feelings of a third party" when, who can leave the chic, who is the winner!

Why Men always liked someone else's wife?

Why Men always liked someone else's wife? 

Man 

Man A, thirty-year career Xiaocheng. Reason is also to start thinking about marriage at the time of event, but he is that he does not. Asked the reason, The answer: "For all the girls did not feel." I feel that they are not frivolous affectation, that they are hypocritical, no meaning. He said the girls are stripped into the arms of light, he has no physiological response. Ask of him is not a problem, A: Definitely not. And see some gentle, thought has been the wife of the women, even across the street, will feel an upsurge of phallic swelling waves Bo. Therefore, the last ten years, did not talk about love, but privately gave the green cap number of older men. 
Man B, married two years, full of complaints about the Stepford Wives. Anger at the time of its Hehuan always eyes closed, I do not know the capacity to appreciate. Even worse, she and her family had the number, the name of my colleagues. Stepford Wives denounced, as the Cold War began, the man does not pamper avoided. 
Male C, marriage is not over seven years, has been itching. Friends wife and sisters, brothers, wife of a friend are better than their wives sleep. So look forward to ambiguous illusion of a different taste. Started from the close, and create opportunities. Imply that some, though had been rejected, but there are also harvest of many. 
More than three man, the performance of different, but both belong to one disease. Mistake can not be called a disease. You think how can we read show that disease? What is wrong with the new recovery difference for them? Fresh Color is one of the inherent nature, this is only a complex of more than wives. 
Present, more and more the feeling of love a Man of weakening, while for other people's growing interest in his wife. What is the reason for this? This is mainly psychological factors are at play. 
First of all, are kept different perspective. For his own wife, quietly fade away slowly time polished the old passion. That once covered the merits of a pair of eyes in its eyes, gradually lost its color. And because screen screen compatibility with Fiji, who have not been seen mottle exposed. Gradually, all over the merits of his wife turned into a immense disadvantage. And other people's wives, because only the far-sighted, you can see only advantages. Both compared to their own wife is getting worse, someone else's wife getting better and better. This is a Man, it gave some of their wives did not feel more and more of other people's wives have to appreciate more and more. 
In fact, this is just a far-sighted and near to see the problem. You see all the advantages of someone else's wife, her husband seems to also have many shortcomings. Many marriages do not have short-comings, imperfections are you do not appreciate the marriage of mind and eyes. For my wife, you better go find her the United States, to enlarge her beauty. It has been said is not it, life is not the lack of the United States, are found missing. 
The second is the psychological difference and novelty. His wife, a long time, and there is no freshness. As time goes by, time passion has been watered down. And other people's wives, because of no avail, always feel fresh. There will always be unlimited reverie, that posture, that carcass, and that every possible detail, will bring unlimited passion. This fresh order, want to experience the feelings of the psychological differences, the majority of male fantasy who are the reasons for his wife.
Three are the existence of incentives. Wanted a lot of things not born, but has induced factors. On such as A Man, his wife, the exclusion of girls of normal psychology, not because the girls how, nor any girls who are hurt. But because in the not yet realized that how cute Girl Before that, he realized that the people brought his wife to their physical and mental pleasure. Kind of initial shock, let him believe it was the best, most wonderful, most will give himself the pleasure. This experience became the girl the same age, to resist him a poison. 
The fourth is to conquer the psychological. For those who own how people look how well his wife, made her heart It was a conquest. An excellent in their own eyes everywhere, and even the wife of a very arrogant person placed under the body, it is a conquest. For such a conquest of Man are unique domineering, but also an affirmation of their self-confidence and passion and motivate performance. This mentality has often are more likely to want to get more, but more must be no more. 
Fifth, inspired a sense of accomplishment. In a fresh experience to meet after the conquest of For, which was induced by a passion to want to be eager to experience the next, and then the next, fresh the next. The novelty of this one difference, let those men to conquer time and access to other people's pleasure, which will allow them to have a growing sense of accomplishment. Some even make up for their own goals, lock some people, or reach a certain number. 
For adults, the Man of the people for the wife of complex, we are not judged by the moral. Sexologist has not said it, people are sexual rights. The right to seek its own right, some burst out of the depths of human mind and behavior, there is no mistake. However, life as an important part of marriage or the necessary stability. Similarly, the stability of society is also required. You are always staring at someone else's wife, your wife may also be staring at someone else. When you as a gift to the other men a green cap and the whisper of the private hi, you may have been a string of green cap firmly withholding. 
Refuse green hat, from your start. Men who have other wives do not blame you plot. But think about can not practice.

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