Friday, February 13, 2009

Why Men always liked someone else's wife?

Why Men always liked someone else's wife? 

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Man A, thirty-year career Xiaocheng. Reason is also to start thinking about marriage at the time of event, but he is that he does not. Asked the reason, The answer: "For all the girls did not feel." I feel that they are not frivolous affectation, that they are hypocritical, no meaning. He said the girls are stripped into the arms of light, he has no physiological response. Ask of him is not a problem, A: Definitely not. And see some gentle, thought has been the wife of the women, even across the street, will feel an upsurge of phallic swelling waves Bo. Therefore, the last ten years, did not talk about love, but privately gave the green cap number of older men. 
Man B, married two years, full of complaints about the Stepford Wives. Anger at the time of its Hehuan always eyes closed, I do not know the capacity to appreciate. Even worse, she and her family had the number, the name of my colleagues. Stepford Wives denounced, as the Cold War began, the man does not pamper avoided. 
Male C, marriage is not over seven years, has been itching. Friends wife and sisters, brothers, wife of a friend are better than their wives sleep. So look forward to ambiguous illusion of a different taste. Started from the close, and create opportunities. Imply that some, though had been rejected, but there are also harvest of many. 
More than three man, the performance of different, but both belong to one disease. Mistake can not be called a disease. You think how can we read show that disease? What is wrong with the new recovery difference for them? Fresh Color is one of the inherent nature, this is only a complex of more than wives. 
Present, more and more the feeling of love a Man of weakening, while for other people's growing interest in his wife. What is the reason for this? This is mainly psychological factors are at play. 
First of all, are kept different perspective. For his own wife, quietly fade away slowly time polished the old passion. That once covered the merits of a pair of eyes in its eyes, gradually lost its color. And because screen screen compatibility with Fiji, who have not been seen mottle exposed. Gradually, all over the merits of his wife turned into a immense disadvantage. And other people's wives, because only the far-sighted, you can see only advantages. Both compared to their own wife is getting worse, someone else's wife getting better and better. This is a Man, it gave some of their wives did not feel more and more of other people's wives have to appreciate more and more. 
In fact, this is just a far-sighted and near to see the problem. You see all the advantages of someone else's wife, her husband seems to also have many shortcomings. Many marriages do not have short-comings, imperfections are you do not appreciate the marriage of mind and eyes. For my wife, you better go find her the United States, to enlarge her beauty. It has been said is not it, life is not the lack of the United States, are found missing. 
The second is the psychological difference and novelty. His wife, a long time, and there is no freshness. As time goes by, time passion has been watered down. And other people's wives, because of no avail, always feel fresh. There will always be unlimited reverie, that posture, that carcass, and that every possible detail, will bring unlimited passion. This fresh order, want to experience the feelings of the psychological differences, the majority of male fantasy who are the reasons for his wife.
Three are the existence of incentives. Wanted a lot of things not born, but has induced factors. On such as A Man, his wife, the exclusion of girls of normal psychology, not because the girls how, nor any girls who are hurt. But because in the not yet realized that how cute Girl Before that, he realized that the people brought his wife to their physical and mental pleasure. Kind of initial shock, let him believe it was the best, most wonderful, most will give himself the pleasure. This experience became the girl the same age, to resist him a poison. 
The fourth is to conquer the psychological. For those who own how people look how well his wife, made her heart It was a conquest. An excellent in their own eyes everywhere, and even the wife of a very arrogant person placed under the body, it is a conquest. For such a conquest of Man are unique domineering, but also an affirmation of their self-confidence and passion and motivate performance. This mentality has often are more likely to want to get more, but more must be no more. 
Fifth, inspired a sense of accomplishment. In a fresh experience to meet after the conquest of For, which was induced by a passion to want to be eager to experience the next, and then the next, fresh the next. The novelty of this one difference, let those men to conquer time and access to other people's pleasure, which will allow them to have a growing sense of accomplishment. Some even make up for their own goals, lock some people, or reach a certain number. 
For adults, the Man of the people for the wife of complex, we are not judged by the moral. Sexologist has not said it, people are sexual rights. The right to seek its own right, some burst out of the depths of human mind and behavior, there is no mistake. However, life as an important part of marriage or the necessary stability. Similarly, the stability of society is also required. You are always staring at someone else's wife, your wife may also be staring at someone else. When you as a gift to the other men a green cap and the whisper of the private hi, you may have been a string of green cap firmly withholding. 
Refuse green hat, from your start. Men who have other wives do not blame you plot. But think about can not practice.

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